Automotive technology has mostly ignored security just as most other markets. They focus their innovation on tech that sells, and security does not inherently make better sales. Hence the IoT bandwagon.
Since users are going to want to continue having Bluetooth access and other device linked to their car, connectivity is not going to go away. When Bluetooth first came out in cars, hackers found ways to control and effect these cars quite easily. Implementing new tech without assessing it's vunerabilities is a repeating theme. I believe it was about 20 years ago that Ford came out with a pneumatic door lock system that was "super secure". Then thieves found that they could use a tennis ball with a hole in it to punch against the lock, build up pressure, and unlock all doors. Security has to be treated seriously, and be included with FMEA studies if it is going to be truly successful.
All one would have to imagine is rush traffic on the Long Island Expressway, and having the hacked cars all accelerate at the same time, or having some cross over the median. A new 9/11. If we truly want to have this kind of tech, there needs to be a market focus on security. And maybe a secure version of the Internet (not anonymous)? Then online banking would be safe, too. But I think slowing down the IoT trend is quite important. There have already been some universities and businesses hit with their IoT devices being turned into botnets. What would North Korea do with that ability?