Wasn't a full metal backplate supposed to solve that problem?
If you want strength from two relatively flimsy parallel material sheets, there needs to be bracing between the two converting deformation into tension-compression between the two planes to prevent parallelogram deformation, otherwise you gain near-zero stiffness. For backplates to be structurally significant, they'd need to be machined out of a ~4mm thick aluminum plate so the walls around component pockets can provide that bracing.
Most GPU backplates are purely decorative. At best, they provide mechanical protection for back-side SMDs. Cooling-wise, they insulate the PCB from airflow, which is actually detrimental to cooling unless you thermal pad everything just to break even since SMDs sink most of their heat into the PCB.
If those thing where soldered correctly the sagging shoudnt be an issue.
Bend a PCB enough and solder balls will break no matter how good the soldering job was, especially when you add metal fatigue from thermal expansion-contraction cycle on top.