Unfortunately no possibly to upgrade as it is built into the Logic Board.
TRIM for third party SSD's is now enabled by Apple (since Yosemite) and can be turned on using the command "sudo trimforce enable" from terminal.
I have only heard of bad things happening with TRIM on third party SSD's before Apple enabled it. You had to bypass their core security to enable it before and that did cause issues if you did not disable it before updating the system. I have not heard any bad things about it since it was enabled by Apple.