Our approach has always been ... stay off the bleeding the and let others do the bleeding. I remember an OS update (XP SP2 IIRC) fudged AutoCAD's licensing utility and engineering firms has engineers and CAD techs sitting at the desks twiddling thumbs because they couldn't launch. My phone was ringing all day from folks trying to access their drawings.
The driver updates aren't that much of a risk, but all should remember Win 10's disaster after launch when every time you installed an nVidia driver, Win 10 would immediately uninstall it and if you had SLI, it was broken. reinstall the driver again to fixed but the OS would then go back and uninstall again. Best thing for OS is to not allow it to install any hardware drivers.
See sevenforums or tenforums if ya need to find out how.
As for driver update utilities, WTH they dont offer menu option: "If I don't tell ya otherwise, install drivers after X days" and you get to pick the number