nukemaster :
TwoDigital :
I've found watching Blu-Ray disks very difficult as well.
I feel your pain on bluray playback sometimes.
I finally bought an Oppo (used), a year ago, and I've been very happy with it. Just wish it were a bit more snappy. And I hate the remote it comes with.
I'm a big fan of their Source Direct mode, which eliminates all processing. The only processing I use on my TV is the motion smoother, which seems to work much better when all the player's processing is bypassed.
The only feature I've found lacking in my BDP-93 is xvYCC support. But I only have a couple discs that use it, and I can play those in either a cheapy Samsung player or my PS3.
Edit: another benefit of the Oppo is that their HDMI output is bit-perfect. A few years ago, some reviewers started testing HDMI accurancy and found some rather shocking errors in even big-name products. I've never seen a PC graphics card measured, but you've got to wonder whether they implemented the various colorspaces and sample-rate conversions correctly.