ThankfulForHelp :
not really anymore, in the old days a badly written floppy disk could brick your system but most can be updated via a windows application/usb, asrock uses their App shop to update drivers and the BIOS.
another choice? tons. literally any micro ATX board with a 1150 socket, to support the i3.
https://pcpartpicker.com/product/wMLypg/msi-motherboard-h81mp33
https://pcpartpicker.com/product/BQXfrH/asus-motherboard-h81me
https://pcpartpicker.com/product/vtPfrH/asus-motherboard-h81ma
https://pcpartpicker.com/product/wMLypg/msi-motherboard-h81mp33
these are just a few of the cheapest highly rated boards that would all work
I spent 6+ hours researching all this, using those 2 sites you gave (pcpart and cpu.user). I understand what you are suggesting now with the cpu and motherboard and how there are so many choices. I tried for hours to find what I need and could not..there are just so many choices. So I figured that I can give you a list of my components and what I would need on the motherboard, and you can point me in the right direction, like you already have been doing...but just narrow it down for me more. The parts you gave are great, but I think I would like to spend a little more and get more newer models and more speed from the cpu.
I have and would like to keep (to save money):
2 x 4gb ddr3 1600 ram pc3-12800 (one of them is this exact one kingston acr16d3lu1kfg/4g)
GeForce GTX 750 Ti
Asus VC239 23" monitor
WDC WD10EZEX-21M2NA0, (1TB 7200 RPM, SATA-III) Hard Drive with Win 8.1
Gateway DX4375 UR22 Case
Optical Drive: ATAPI DVD A DH16ACSH
Every couple of years, I find myself trying to upgrade. So I guess I am hoping for something newer for the cpu and mobo. This is in response to the discussion about me using older "architecture."
After looking at the differences between the i3 and i5's, I understand how they overlap a bit. So specifically, I would like something more along the lines of the i5 for speed comparison (faster than the higher i3's but not over $200). We have a website and it takes forever to upload photos and make changes, so I want this to be fast.
I don't need much if any onboard graphics since I have the GTX, I just bought above.
I would like the motherboard to be able to use all the above and have atleast 1 regular usb (could be 3.0 too and 1 usb 3.0 in the front) I also need some usb's in the back. We use the front ones a lot and I have 2 slots up there. We also use the sd card reader in the front of the tower A LOT. I would like to use Asrock, as you mentioned, since I am worried about updating BIOS, and it seems they have made it simple.
I need an ethernet port too since we use that for our internet connection.
I understand I would need a new power supply, mobo, and cpu.
The main problem I had, was when I picked a cpu on pcpartpicker, I could not find the mobo to go with it that had the ports and things I needed. And I got a bit boggled by all the choices. And since my pc is slow, it was taking a long time to copy and paste each mobo choice in a new window to research it.
Lastly, it is very important that all is quiet as possible. I sit next to the tower for hours and would like it psu and any cpu cooler fans to be quiet.
That all being said, I don't have an endless budget, but I will spend what I need to, to get a quiet, fast pc.
THANKS again!! for all the help and patience.