Upgrading ram issue

i built my first computer with an i7-4790 cpu, asus Z97M-Plus mobo, and 2 sticks of G.Skill Ripjaws 1600 MHz ram, 8GB each. Back then i didn't know about making sure to purchase matching set of ram sticks, but have had no issues for the past three years - and all these sticks were on Asus's QVL list.

This past week i bought an additional 2 sticks of the exact same ram, same part #, same latency etc as the original pair and just put them in. But these two sticks are also unmatched. Problem now is DDR3 ram is getting hard to find and so i took a chance as there was only one vendor even showing the original ram's part number available, and nobody showing any 32GB matched sets of DDR3 that were on Asus's QVL

When i go into My Computer properties, it sees them but shows "Installed memory (RAM) 32 GB (16 GB usable).

I go into BIOS and it recognizes all 4 sticks, i ran Intel's Processor Diagnostic tool and it shows 32GB, but if i go into Task Manager, it only sees 16GB with 13GB available, which is what i had before i added the 2 additional 8 GB sticks,

In BIOS, with computer panel off, i hit the ASUS "mem check" button, and it comes back fine. I ran the windows memory test diagnostic and it shows "passed". Also in BIOS, there's a setting to make both sticks in both "channel A and Channel B" available, and that's checked.

any suggestions on how to get the system to recognize and use the two additional sticks of ram or is this a case "you can't get there from here" because of the unmatched sticks?.
 
Solution
Which Windows and version are you using?

Id assume youre either win7 pro or win10 but if any chance your on win 7 home there is a 16gb limit.
Memory manufacturers only guarantee memory to work in the form it is sold in.

Adding extra memory, regardless of brand or model number, adds additional stress to the memory controller. As a result, the memory may no longer be able to operate at rated specifications and/or the PC may not boot.

Workarounds to get extra memory to work include:
Lower DRAM frequency
Relax DRAM timings
Increase DRAM voltage
Lower CPU multiplier
 
Calvin7 - i'd already seen your suggestions in another thread and tried them - no luv, but thanks