Cool. We are getting nearer our goal. The manual doesn't tell you how to get into the BIOS but I believe you press the Delete key during the very first part of powering up.
I will take a little time and see if I can find the exact category within the BIOS where the graphics choice is made.
1st update: doing a little google research I have found that not all newer video cards are compatable with your motherboard. some of this compatability can be taken care of with a BIOS update - a risky venture as a bad BIOS update, or Flash, can kill the motherboard.
I think it is worth trying to change the graphics setting, but there is a chance it won't work.
2nd and Major UPDATE: Please check out this link:
http://h30434.www3.hp.com/t5/Desktop-Audio-Video-Monitors/Pavilion-a6157c-GRAPHICS-CARD-UPGRADE-needed-What-is/td-p/1889355
This upgrade may not be possible or safe.
According to Nvidia the GTS 450 uses a Maximum of 106W (or ~ 9amps) of power and they recommend a minimum 400W power supply for a system with one of these cards, plus the psu should have at least one 6pin PCI-E (video card) power connector. This site recommends a minimum of 450W with 24amps on the +12V power rail:
http://forum-en.msi.com/faq/article/power-requirements-for-graphics-cards
Keeping all this in mind you will need to determine if your old PC meets the minimum requirements.
If it does NOT and you proceed with the install you run the risk of blowing up your power supply and possibly your computer.
That link also gives a simple method, one that might not require changing anything in the BIOS afterall, so if you move forward with the install try the info in the link and see if you can get it working.
I am NOT trying to convince you to get a new PC, but it might be time to seriously consider doing so, especially if you want to game on it or do video/CAD work.
Please repost or private message me with what you want to do.
Power supply connections/connectors;
http://www.playtool.com/pages/psuconnectors/connectors.html