in all fairness we are all a bit like that when we are young and as we get older we can think that our way is the only way. I have no problem with youth, in tech they often do know what they are talking about. My 10 year old berated me the other day when I was caught using Chrome not Firefox and I was informed of all Goggles ills. And he has been doing simple coding for about 2 years now.
Better that I ask, even though I was certain I was doing things right. I have probably built more than 100 systems by now and couldn't see how I was just getting lucky since XP days. Then again I haven't used every motherboard, I don't think I've ever built a supermicro for example but lots of Asrock, MSI and Gigabyte. Thank you all for reassuring me though as my heart sank as I played through the scenario of having been acting in ignorance for years. I even pulled out an old AMD Bulldozer Based system from the attic to check--all 3 builds I have currently are new and they had no washers supplied with case or MB. I won't be smug when I tell them I am certain they are wrong but I do wonder if it is a bad practice as I imagine the standoffs act to ground the MB. Another thing is with SBC like the Raspberry Pi, often that stuff ships with nylon 2.5m fittings, maybe that is where the confusion crept in for him as he is into SBC and has advised me a few times on them/ Python. So he isn't a complete know nothing.