The first can only you decide depending of how much and which memory demanding programs you are using.
Second:
When it comes to memory's there are a few things to keep in mind:
1. Always install memory sticks from one memory kit. They are matched together.
2. Always make sure that the chosen memory's is indeed supported by the motherboard and its processor.
Different types of memory's, different frequencies, timings etc. the memory stick with the lowest speed will always set the speed for the rest of them.
3. Very important that the voltage of the memory are supported by the processor; meaning that a memory stick with to much voltage let say 1.5V when the processor spec. clearly says 1.35V - will damage and shorten the processors life span.
4. Make sure that the height of the memory modules can fit under the CPU-cooler (if it is not original).
So I'm buying Corsair ddr4 2×4 Gb ram with I3 6100 so great or not? http://www.amazon.in/gp/aw/d/B00TY6A2Z4/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1481328035&sr=8-2&pi=SY200_QL40&keywords=ddr4+4gb+ram
Yes they are great modules for the i3 , 2133 is a perfect match.