IDK, probably a bit of a tangent, but this situation makes me think of all the "I have the same parts as such and such You Tuber and not getting the performance". As you go along this journey of building and tuning systems you rather learn things along the way. First off, never trust (most of) the tubers. And otherwise even outside of "silicone lottery" we see a LOT of variation in performance. This selection of RAM might get you 2 more FPS than that, and this motherboard will give you 100mhz, and so on and so forth. It is this constant pressure telling PC gamers that there system isn't good enough.
The top (3) GPU in the Steam survey right now are 3060/1650/1060.
31% of all Steam survey participants are on 8GB of VRAM. Everything above that only accounts for 24.6% of users polled. 44% of those users are on less than 8, and some of those lower results are a bit surprising. Nearly 4% of these folks are gaming on 1GB or LESS VRAM. 4GB is ~11% by itself (and still climbing), 6GB is ~16% and falling. The 11/16/24GB variants are very slowly increasing but that whole group is barely 6% of the market (by this survey) Of note that 12GB is just over 14% by itself, but falling.
It is also of note that (if I deciphering this correctly) just over 60% of the players polled are still on 1920x1080.
And in the meantime game producers just want people to buy and be able to play their titles. If there is one group of people paying close attention to the market realities, it is these developers...
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