I really need to know the specs on the memory. Did you buy them as a matched set? Dual Channel memory systems need MATCHED pairs of RAM to function properly. They have to be the same brand, speed, voltage, timing, etc or problems can arise. That is why dual channel memory is usually sold in matched pairs.
Try each stick individually in each slot to be sure one of the slots is not bad.
You can verify that both sticks are not defective by running memtest on each stick individually for one FULL pass:
http://www.memtest.org/
Simply download the .ISO file and use it to burn a CD. Put it in the optical drive and re-boot. Memtest will load and begin testing memory immediately.
As to the RAID question, what do you mean being ON? Is the SATA Mode set to RAID in BIOS?
This is page 22 of your MB manual:
OnChip SATA Type
This option allows you to select the on-chip Serial ATA operation mode.
Options: Native IDE (Default) / RAID / AHCI / Legacy IDE / IDEÆAHCI /
HyperFlash / IDEÆHyperFlash
If you have 2 or more HDDs in a RAID* array, then use RAID. If not...
For normal use with a single boot drive, it will depend on what kind of drive is conencted; SATA or older IDE (ribbon cable). And what the OS is. Safest bet if you don't know is set it to the default setting and try to boot to Windows. If you can boot to Windows, all is fine. If not, try IDE/AHCI next. Then try AHCI.
R.A.I.D. = Redundant Array of Independent Disks