steveN7x :
Thank you for the upgrades, i'm not to familiar with computers and it seems way better coming from someone who does.
Woah, 1280x960? Then the build I suggested (as well as the initial build you had) is majorly overkill! You can certainly expect a smooth constant 60 fps for every single game at that resolution at the maximum settings. The build I recommend is meant for a 1920x1080 resolution, and the build you initially had is also meant for that resolution as well, but it wouldn't be quite as smooth.
You can actually cutback on the parts a lot if you expect to play at that resolution, but I recommend that you buy the build I suggested and then when the time is right, upgrade your monitor to a 1920x1080. A good, 21" 1920x1080 monitor is anywhere from $120 - $180, and can go higher than that but that's a pretty good price range to stay in for that size and resolution.
I actually did something similar to you. My current build is extremely similar to yours, but I only had a crappy HDTV from 2007 to play on at first and I was playing at 1280x720 for the first few weeks after I built it. Every game was a constant 60 fps at the maximum settings (technically it was much higher than 60 fps, but on a 60 Hz monitor you won't notice anything more than 60 fps) and it was awesome, but the resolution still felt lacking. When I finally upgraded to a 1920x1080 monitor, the difference was astounding. Even though I may have dropped below 60 at some points on a few games, the overall quality was still incredible and it was totally worth the couple fps I lost.
So yeah, I recommend you get the build I recommended and then in future, do what I did and save up enough money for a nice 1920x1080 monitor.