Others have mixed DRAM also and it used to be fairly easy especially with the older DDR2, DDR and prior. And 'Standard' clocked DRAM doesn't mean a whole lot when the sticks and memory chips are constantly changing - i.e. Corsair even labels there 'standard' lines of DRAM by version number which can indicate different chips used and possibly even a change of PCB or solder.
Simply put, when you can pull sticks right off the assembly line and they might or might not play, and the fact the manufacturers test DRAM together to ensure they package compatible sticks in a package should tell you something. If indeed mixing was as simple as you want to make it sound, then all they would do is sell single sticks at higher prices, eliminate the testing and reap higher prices. Take note they don't guarantee mixed packages - even the same exact model.
Sure they might play, but they might not - it's pretty much a 50/50 crapshoot - another fun thought, I've had sets that simply won't play at all on different mobos, and will play perfectly fine on others 😉