It's not the connectors. The drive has to be reformatted as a GPT-formatted drive instead of an MBR-formatted drive. The old standard MBR partition tables can't describe a drive of over about 2.13 TiB.
If'n you search the forums (fora?) for GPT, you will find a wealth of discussion on the topic. Maybe even someone who knows how to set up the disk for you.
It depends, also, on the motherboard, controllers, and driver software, but I'm ignorant of such things. My largest drive is 750 MB.
Edit: Try this:
http://msdn.microsoft.com/en-us/windows/hardware/gg463524 . Also, I don't think that Windows will boot off a GPT disk unless you have a UEFI (Unified Extensible Firmware Interface) motherboard, and there are precious few of those yet.
Yes, that link is good.
Creating GPT Drives
You can convert only empty, unpartitioned disks (raw drives or empty MBR drives) to the GPT format. To convert a volume that contains data, you must first manually delete the partition.
You can use the following methods to create GPT disks:
■ In the Disk Management console, right-click the MBR drive you want to convert to GPT and then click Convert to GPT Disk. If the drive is not empty or contains partitions, this option is unavailable.
■ In the DISKPART utility, select the drive you want to convert and enter the following command:CONVERT GPT
For raw disks, you can use two additional methods:
■ After you install a new raw disk, open the Disk Management console to start a wizard that you can use to configure the new disk. The wizard includes options to initialize the disk as MBR or GPT.
■ Initialize the new disk later by using the Initialize Disk option in the Disk Management console.