From a compute point of view, here are some passmark performance numbers:
Q9650 4268 with all 4 cores fully used; 1268 single core
i3-2100 3631 1576
G3258 4001 2172
All three are close in total compute capability if you can use all available threads.
Look at that number if your use is multithreaded apps like editing/rendering.
Games mostly depend on the speed of a single master core.
On that basis, the i3-2100 would be better than the Q9650 for gaming.
I included for comparison a modern $70 G3258 which will generally be better for gaming, and the performance can be boosted some 30% with overclocking.
Either graphics card you mentioned are quite good.
But, if you are looking at pre built pc's you have to be careful about psu quality.
Dell inspiron is a laptop, and that is probably not a good gamer.
Post the details about what you are considering.