8GB DIMM RAM can't be recognized

[Kiko_4]

okay so i got this new ram in today from: http://www.lazada.com.ph/teamwin-new-8gb-ddr3-pc3-12800-1600mhz-desktop-pc-dimm-memory-ram240-pin-7603072.html?ff=1

and my motherboard specs are here: http://www.asrock.com/MB/Intel/H61M-VS3/index.asp

my problem is it can't be read, i already have a 2gb ddr3 ram and i want to upgrade it to a 10gb ram
PLEASE HELP WHAT TO DO p.s:not a tech wiz

 

[brispuss]

That 8 GB module uses memory chips that use 4 bit memory data width which is not compatible with the Intel system (Intel system recognizes 8 and 16 bit memory chip data width only) ASRock H61M-VS3 motherboard. That 8 GB module is intended for AMD systems where the 4 bit memory data width is recognized and compatible.

Also, a balanced dual channel setup is recommended to maximize memory bandwidth; that is two modules of the same capacity and from the same dual channel kit be used. Something like a 2 x 4 GB dual channel kit would be suggested to replace the existing 2 GB module. Using a 2 GB module in one channel and an 8 GB module in the other channel makes an unbalanced arrangement where memory bandwidth is substantially lower than that from balanced configuration.