ok. overclocking is pretty easy to do... first i suggest you read this
http://www.overclock.net/t/902756/amd-overclock-guide-for-newbs
it's important to know what you're doing so start there. there are good guides out there to overclocking phenomII cpus as well, and the general principle is the same for your FX.
http://www.overclockers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=596023 This is an outstanding guide if you want to learn more about what you're doing, granted a bit of the specific details are different for the fx cpu but the general principle and techniques are the same.
As for your cpu, the quick and dirty of it would be to load into your bios. go to the advanced settings tab. change the clock settings from automatic to manual. then bump the CPU multiplier by 0.5. save and restart your machine. see if you can load into windows. if you can, restart the computer and bump the cpu multiplier another +0.5. save and load into windows. do this until windows crashes your computer on startup, or the computer doesn't POST. don't worry if it won't post, after 3 failed attempts to POST motherboards will reset their own bios back to basic settings. If that doesn't happen, just clr_cmos, and start from the last good multiplier number. now we need to start to bump voltages.
Go you your vcore number, and change it from automatic to manual. the baseline vcore number should be something like 1.3250V... something in that range... bump the vcore 1 step up (depending on the motherboard you can either set the vcore manually to whatever number you chose or it will go in small bumps of 0.0125V; if its manual use the 0.0125V as your base line bump in voltage. it's a good small number and you won't hurt anything with it). so bump the vcore by +.0125V save and restart the machine, load into windows and download prime95. you're going to want to get hwmonitor as well, and keep an eye on your cpu and motherboard temps. run prime95 for a few passes and make sure the cpu temps don't break 68C, make sure the motherboard doesn't get up over 10C over ambient temps (the socket temp should be about the same as the cpu temps so don't worry about that one.)
As long as you have an aftermarket cpu cooler you should be able to get something of an overclock going, solid case airflow will keep temps low despite the torture test of prime95.
Prime will probably crash on you, or the system will blue screen... in which case you're going to bump your vcore another step up. keep bumping the vcore as needed, and keep a close eye on temps when you run prime95. more vcore means more temps. If you hit your thermal limit before the system can run prime95, you'll need to lower the multiplier by 0.5C or get a better cpu cooler. and see if your stabilize it without overheating.
there is a lot more to overclocking like your nb frequency, and ram or even the cpu frequency/fsb... but for now thats the basics.