As someone who has just built a new PC with a 7800X3D, this is very concerning!
I was one of those who didn't really question when I read things like "DDR5 6000 is the sweet spot" or think too hard about what the letters in EXPO stood for. I get that yes, it's overclocking, but the way it is talked about, not only on tech websites and forums but in official manufacturer marketing copy, gives a layman (such as I am) a definite sense of it being right at the bottom of the ladder compared to 'real' overclocking (PBO, manual overclocking etc) .
The fact that you have to enable XMP/EXPO to get your RAM at the speeds advertised on the packaging solidifies the impression that this is standard procedure and as close to safe as overclocking gets. There is even a little AMD EXPO logo on the front of the box for my memory! (Although to be fair, on the back it does say that 'system stability with overclocked memory kits may depend on the capability of the motherboard & CPU'.)
1.35V SoC also seems to be standard on this RAM, as it's listed on the label, and that's the value I'm seeing in HW info with EXPO on the most basic profile. It leaves me with a lot of uncertainty. Is this a dangerous voltage? Opinions seem to be split. What will happen to memory performance if I lower it (or perform a BIOS update that lowers it for me?) I've been experimenting with my MSI mobo's 'High Efficiency' memory feature - is that exacerbating the risk?
Bottom line - am I faced with the dilemma of picking between safety and performance? You can tell me that this is the obvious choice facing anyone who wants to overclock and I'll agree, but as someone who just wants to reach all the numbers this expensive kit was sold to me on, it feels pretty terrible. Caveat emptor, I guess.