I think you're confused, here. Just because an article tests cinebench or someone mentions MT performance & efficiency doesn't mean anyone thinks it's a top priority for these products. However, you also can't dismiss them as irrelevant, because there are clearly some users out there who want/need it.
I'll give you another use case, which is important for a lot of corporate users. At work, I mostly use an Intel i5-1250P, which has 4P + 8E cores (16 threads). When I login and fire up task manager, nearly all cores/threads are saturated for about the first minute, before it starts to settledown. That's because there's a ton of stuff that, whether it makes sense or not, wants to run immediately upon login. Performance of everything is further bogged down by not only anti-virus, but other sorts of security software.
Where it becomes really painful is when I need to join a meeting on MS Teams. I wakeup my laptop to find it had rebooted to install some updates, so I have to login instead of just unlocking it. I can do nothing but sit there and wait, for at least 30 seconds (which feels like an eternity, if I'm already late to a meeting) before I can finally join the call. And I'm quoting you performance numbers when it's actually on A/C power and plenty of clearance around the cooling vents + ducts (plus no dust or lint clogging it).
Now, if you give someone a new notebook and it doesn't improve on this important metric, I'm sure most of us would be disappointed. What makes it worse is that software tends to get slower with time, not faster. So, you could imagine that what might be 30-40 seconds today could eventually stretch beyond a minute, before they eventually get another upgrade.
In designing a 4+4 processor, Intel seems to have focused on the Apple M3. However, I'll bet most MacOS installs don't have so much bloatware. Plus, Apple lets you go from a 2.7 pound Macbook Air to a 3.5 pound Macbook Pro, if you need more performance. That still classifies as "thin & light" in my book. It's certainly thinner & lighter than my i5-1250P laptop.