The idea that you NEED a 1.2v kit is riddled with faulty thinking. The standard is 1.35v and some DDR4 kits go all the way up to 1.45v, stock.
QVL is of course ONLY a VERY minimal test sample. It's SUGGESTIVE of what will work on any given motherboard, it is certainly not meant to be all inclusive.
Please read the guide at the following link. It may, probably won't, answer ALL of your questions, but it should at least fill in SOME of the blanks that might not have already been addressed by 4745454b and others here.
In the beginning, there was......BIOS Before you go ANY further, go to the manufacturer product page for your specific motherboard model AND revision. Revision is an important aspect because for any given motherboard there may be more than one version of that model which will be identified...
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