I've heard that many Intel chipsets (particularly the p965) won't POST if the default RAM voltage is anything other than 1.8v. ...
ALL properly-designed DDR2 RAM will boot at 1.8V, the DDR2 standard (or default) voltage (although perhaps at a slower speed/latency than that advertised for higher voltages). The higher voltages seen in manufacturer's advertising/specs are voltages used for manufacturer-sanctioned overclocks; they are not "default" voltages.
The DDR2 memory industry is not yet mature, and so improperly designed/programmed DDR2 DIMMs that won't boot on some systems are an unfortunate reality. Certain manufacturers, such as Corsair and Kingston, emphasize compatibility, while others, such as OCZ, emphasize performance over compatibility. In any case, almost all DIMMs carry lifetime warranties these days, so if you have an incompatibility problem, just return the module for replacement under warranty