You can try just getting 5300, the reason crucial states 6400 will work is that the motherboard and RAM will, in theory, work together to set a speed that is right for the spec, but not faster than what the motherboard can handle normally. Sometimes RAM chips don't report their speed right, or some issue between the RAM and the motherboard chipset or BIOS causes the speeds to get skewed, and you end up with RAM running faster than the motherboard can handle without crashing. This is one of those "rare" cases where RAM and motherboard don't play well together like I posted. Could be other issues between them than just the speed also, many little things to run perfect for it all to work, and a tiny glitch will get you crashes.
If you want, try a BIOS update for your system, vendors often add better RAM support in BIOS revisions. Or just return the chips and get 5300 speeds, you'll have less chance of the system crashing due to a bad BIOS flash. But I don't think I have seen any BIOS update go bad myself in 20 years of computer work that was not caused by a power outage or something similar.