Your current CPU with a 1080ti is probably the closest your going to get anyhow, at least without a high end dedicated workstation card and then you essentially lose the gaming aspect. Plenty of people are doing exactly the same tasks as you want to do, with substantially less capable systems, it just takes a little longer, so with what you have you can feel pretty confident that at least for now there isn't much else you could change that would conclusively and dramatically improve being able to render/encode and game at 4k at a much higher level.
Sometimes, the question to how do I do this or what can do this better, is, you can't/there's not. What you have now, or is proposed if you don't actually have it already, is probably the best option available within reason for what you want to do.