@OP: Dont' know if this will do the trick, but its probably worth checking:
According to your mobo manual, (thx KyleStl for digging that up) your BIOS supports a LDT bus - which usually is a multipler of the base bus rate forming the overall Hypertransport rate (which is what your accessing your memory over). But the exact usuage varied from mobo to mobo (some, like mine, don't even have a LDT in BIOS).
Anyway, I'm wondering if this is somehow factoring into your issue. According to your manual, its default to auto - can you tell us what yours is set to? If auto, set it to manual and see what options it gives you to select from and post that back here (but then leave it at what it was at for now).