1) Will devices be able to smoothly transfer between the UniFi APs and my router? Or does the UniFi software only control their APs? When you say "sad little workaround", does this mean it's not very seamless? Should I expect any improvement in performance over my current extender setup?
1. Unifi will treat your current route as nothing more than just a WAN address, so from that perspective there won't be any issues. The problem is that the routers you mention actually suck. I know this, 'cause I own them. To verify just how bad they suck, turn on QoS and watch your bandwidth, however much you think your ISP is sending you, trickle down to a tiny, tiny fraction of what you think you should be getting. Feel free to send 30 mb/s of your 50 mb/s connection to your xbox. If you test the speed, you'll be LUCKY if you get 5mb/s. That alone is a good test for just how good/bad a particular hardware router is. Asus, Netgear, and D-Link. All of them suck at this. Why? Because their processor chips are so sub-par in terms of performance, that the simple act of turning on QoS, i.e. a SOFTWARE SERVICE that necessarily needs to compare packets, routes, and timing, will just about BREAK YOUR NETWORK. Again, I'm not just tootin' something up your nose - I've owned several different vendor's hardware and I've cried about all of it.
If you're truly interested in setting up a network with low latency, then your best option is WIRED. Failing that, your next option is an enterprise system like Ubiquiti, using their UAP-PRO line (lite's are fine, stay away from their LR units). The trick is to try to wire ALL of your AP's to the same switch. If you can't do this, you will necessarily introduce more latency into your network, no matter how many or who's equipment you use. That's just a simple fact of physics.
You see, when you add more "mesh" units, aka: REPEATERS, to any network, they must necessarily function at the same frequency, the same bandwidth, and even broadcast using the same SSID. To put that in perspective and to illustrate why that's just a horrible, terrible thing you're then doing to your WiFi signal, imagine a rock concert.
There's a band on stage. Their instruments are all tweaked to "10", maximum sound. Every fan can hear their music. Awesome.
Now add a SECOND ROCK BAND, on the opposite side of the stadium. Same sound level. ... If you're close to one band, awesome. If you're close to the other one, still awesome. If you're in the middle......NOT SO MUCH.
Now add a THIRD ROCK BAND.... a fourth....etc. I'm sure you understand where I'm going with this.
And then, during this concert, add this wrinkle:
Your fans all want to talk back to their rockstars. While 3+ concerts are going on.
As it turns out, WiFi isn't just "one-way communication" when you download something. It's always, constantly, and during the entire time, a two-way communication thing. In fact, it's even just a hub type connection, where every device's tiny sounds (packets) interfere with the music of every other device.
If you set up a hotspot and a laptop with exactly the same specs (say: A top of the line MIMO system, capable of 1600 mb/s theoretical throughput), you'll get an average speed of X. Now add an identical laptop to that space. Suddenly, neither laptop can achieve X speed anymore. Now it's 1/2 X. Add a third. Now it's 1/3 X. And so on and on. But wait...it gets even better:
Imagine you then get out your old 3rd generation iPad. It doesn't do MIMO. It barely works with G speeds. Guess what, you now have 4 devices all "speeding along" at 1/20th of what your network supposedly can actually handle. How come?
Because WiFi systems, except for the very best, all will revert to the LEAST COMMON DENOMINATOR in order to keep devices connected. They will downgrade speeds for all devices in order to ensure connectivity to all of them.
That's what Ubiquiti's RSSI value is about - you basically limit how much "bad reception" the AP is willing to put up with. If you have a device barely hanging on at the edges of what the radio signal can still connect to, it actually drags down the rest of the network - all the other devices will have speeds similar to what the "edge" device will be experiencing, even if they have a much stronger signal. RSSI is a "floor/ceiling" type limit, and it basically says: "don't bother connectin' 'less you got at least this much signal strength, so you don't bother the neighbors with your lousy signal".
The previous statements made regarding the zero-roaming issues are all true. Zero roaming is a "one-button" fix, which makes all the Ubiquiti antennas for a particular site collection use the same frequency, bandwidth, etc. and combines all the SSID's into just one set. It's also an absolutely TERRIBLE IDEA if you don't have all the antennas (aka: Access points) terminate on the same switch. Read the fine print. Zero roaming ONLY works if all devices are connected, VIA WIRE, back to a single switch. That's fairly easy in a commercial building with drop ceilings, but nearly impossible in a residential home (unless you're in the middle of ripping out walls). So, keep that in mind, please.
Regards & happy holidays.
P.S.: "Mesh" is just 2016+ jargon for "repeater". None of the "mesh" systems being sold, INCLUDING Ubiquiti's own "AMPLIFI", is an actual mesh unit. They all have a single point of failure, i.e. exactly what a true MESH network wouldn't have.