Alright, so you are just looking for entry and future upgrades.
1. You can check the speed of your old RAM by googling the part number or when a computer has it installed you can download CPU-Z and look at the memory tab which will show you speeds (usually 667 or something like that) which is multiplied by 3, because it is ddr3 (the mhz x 3 = speed)
2. Reusing old RAM is fine, as long as your motherboards supports ddr3, which it does. You may suffer speed loss, but since that isn't the issue, make sure you don't mix RAM modules of different speeds, voltages, or any other specs (I'd even stick with same manufacturers)
3. If you are buying exclusively from one retailer, state it loud and clear in the OP, usually people use whatever site they find it cheapest on, but if you only want newegg/amazon links, lets us know up front
4. Then using an APU, you want the fastest RAM possible, however with a weak, entry level APU, the scaling won't gain as much. Try not to overspend on certain parts, like the motherboard, which is very nice, but has features that you are unlikey to use all of. Unless you also have a brand preference like Asus, then state that in the OP and make sure people know
5. While the APU's performance does scale highly with RAM speed, the higher you go, the less boost you get (diminishing returns) so the RAM I listed is VERY VERY cheap and worthwhile at that price because it has a special that expires soon
Also have you considered mini itx over micro atx? It is much smaller if you only plan to use an APU, you can get a much smaller case (those cases usually come with their own power supplies too)
***Also just realized, you mentioned you are not overclocking. This makes me question the A85 chipset mobo even more, as it is an overclocking platform. You can get a similar board without that feature for less. Make a small list of what features you need and how much you want to spend.***
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Hi, I have $300 and want to make a form-factor HTPC. I plan on ordering from Newegg or Amazon. I already have these parts:
1. some part
2. another part
3. operating system
Here are the parts I am currently looking at: part here, and here
Is there any suggestions on parts or how to save some money?
The features I need are:
1. 6GB SATA
2. micro atx
3. usb 3.0
4. something else
Thanks for the help.