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Dennis Francis Heffernan <hefferman@comcast.net> wrote:
> Xocyll wrote:
>> It's nothing to do with societal standards, it's all to do with the
>> way we're wired and our expectations.
> Your entire argument is nothing but a cultural stereotype, itself
> a double standard.
No, it isn't.
I understand how standing up and making any statement that this person is
different from that person pushes all your equality buttons, the ones
that have been built up by successive layers of indoctrination since
kindergarten, but the facts about differences between people don't bow to
enforced notions of equality. And judging people by irreconciliable
differences does not - does not, does not, does not - constitute a double
standard. Even judging people by differences that are societally shaped
and subject to change is not a double standard.
I don't see anything in X's post that represents a double standard,
except in that the way men and women are perceived in present-day North
American society is not entirely logical or consistent.
While the notion that "men don't (have to) dress for overt sexual appeal
and women (often) do" might sound like some kind of double standard, it's
not. It's a pretty obvious fact about how our society regards men and
women in the sexual arena. It's not that men can't be sexy or not; it's
that men have no equivalent to the tube top/short skirt/high heel mode of
dressing - the CumFukMe look.
You could write this off as some kind of aberration in 2005 American
society, but then you'd be ignoring the enormous, nearly universal fact
that virtually NO culture has ever had an overtly sexy mode of dress or
display for men, while virtually NO culture has NOT had proscribed or
disdained dress modes for women - because they were thought to be too
arousing and advertising sexual availability.
So it's either something that's deeply ingrained into Western culture
(and much of world culture) because men are pigs or something, or it's
something that goes right to the physiological base of differences
between men and women, and their mental makeup.
Observing this difference in how men and women are perceived is not a
double standard.
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