Well I think I have found out why my card is bench stable at 1500 or so but not game stable. The cause is unexpected, but makes sense.
Read all 5 pages here, paying particular attention to post #20 and also a later confirmation by another user that it works:
https://forums.geforce.com/default/topic/784294/boost-feature-causes-gtx-970-980-instability-in-low-utilisation-situations/
Appears the voltage changes between boost states are not so smooth and that is what causes instability in some games. This is a non-issue when benchmarking because you're always operating at max/near max voltage. But the midrange throttling may be a bit too low for overcloocked cards, especially when you factor in how leakage is engineered into overclocking enthusiast cards.
Basically, you can use either software or a BIOS tweak to bump the minimum voltage up. This will help improve stability across the midrange loads you will sometimes see when v-sync is on for gaming.
Since the G1 Gaming has a failsafe dual bios, I'm going to try the BIOS tweak and see if it works. I may try bumping the minimum up, or I may try editing the voltage tables to give the midrange values a small bump, maybe .0125-.025v per level. We'll see. I'll report back with my findings.