I've heard nothing about formal studies of SSD life expectancy if they are used in a normal fashion. Only anecdotes and personal experiences.
There was a well known torture test at least 10 years ago that went on for quite a while where a number of SSDs were subjected to petabyte writing levels.....far beyond TBW ratings. I can't recall the results or whether any brand/model was clearly superior, but this was so long ago as to mean little today...pre NVMe. Quite possible the results were random enough that no conclusions could be drawn.
Take your pick; cross your fingers; keep telling yourself TBW is meaningful for your use case if necessary, consider price and return privileges, etc. For occasional use, you aren't likely to approach the TBW anyway.