hmm I dont know how 360 controllers are, do they have a usb plug in? Do you have an IR wireless adapter? or is it IF wireless? I forget.
MotionInJoy is what I use. for PS3 controller with USB.
BEFORE YOU TRY MOTIONINJOY, try to plainly connect the controller to the computer w/o any third party service. Start your game and find the controller options for GAMEPAD or something of the sort. ALSO unplug the xbox360 console because the controller may try to power on the console and connect.
Download latest motioninjoy, connect controller. Click on the 360 option, click enable. Click Driver manager, a driver should pop up, check the box, click LOAD DRIVER AND LOAD DRIVER ONLY!! DO NOT CLICK INSTALL OR ANYTHING ELSE YOU WILL HAVE MAJOR FRUSTRATING ISSUES WITH MOUSE CONNECTIVITY.
Go back to profile tab, click enable and then click vibration testing.