I never have the option to disable wireless meshing. It's always grayed out. I battle unifi every time I need to go in and update the ap's. I like how they work...when they work, but part of the problem is that I'm not a network person at all and I think a person that understands networks loves all of the control unifi offers. I should probably be on a different ecosystem that I can better understand and have knowledge of. Not a knock on unifi, but a lack of skills on my part. Every so often, they seem to not be working well, and I go into my desktop and pull up the software and they need updating. Eventually they work better, but I usually put hours and hours into figuring out how to get them set up again. I had to update a month or two ago, and haven't been able to get them all to read wired since. They were prior to that, but it took me weeks of posting in forums and trying things before I got to that point. The ap that is reading wired right now is actually on a moca. I had to learn all kinds of things about that and replace little metal devices (can't remember the name, but they needed to be upgraded to faster bandwidths to allow internet) and I had to by a different device to navigate the maze of coax cable that was installed in my house before I bought it. I'll get there again eventually, but I'd sure love them to just read wired all of the time and especially after I go in and update them a few times a year. Maybe I'll find some cable problems and that will fix it.