Which laptop do you have specifically?
GPU upgrades are unlikely in a laptop - desoldering/resoldering, coupled with potential lacking BIOS support and cooling limitations (generally) don't make it viable.
The alternatives are dedicated eGPU enclosures (usually/always requiring a Thunderbolt 3 connection), or some extreme modding to access available PCIe lanes (which I wouldn't recommend).
I'd consider selling your laptop and picking up something new opposed to trying to upgrade (assuming it's even theoretically possible).