bystander :
I'm most likely older than you (45). I've been gaming for 30 years. If you can't adapt to fantasy rules, you aren't going to enjoy gaming as much. You've made yourself clear, you don't like gaming combat, as it's not realistic. Great, good luck with that.
LOL, so at 45 you think you're a senior gamer? This only proves what I'm saying, you assume a lot. Since I'm 59, you're still a kid to me, and you're deluded by fantasy games just as much as teens it seems. When I was graduating high school, you weren't even IN school yet. You also assume I don't like combat in games in general. I only ever said I don't like the common twirling swordplay a lot of sword based games use, and it's not a matter of "luck" saying it's unrealistic. It's just a fact based observation you're clueless to.
Devs are going to make games as childish as players crave, regardless of age. You're proof of that. So no, it's not luck, it's player's being deluded that enables them to make games that way. Most will blindly eat up any nonsense thrown at them, and try to call it sensible somehow. You're not the "lucky" ones, you're the ones easily fooled by cheap, repetitious, swordplay animations that are overused in the industry.
It's clear to me you're so hung up on fantasy type gameplay, that you are overly defensive about it, to the point of making a lot of rash assumptions. I really think it's the fact that you got started gaming as a teen, probably with financial help from mom and dad, that makes you still as naive and disrespectful as one. So that 30 years of gaming you're harping about hasn't made you any more knowledgeable, just more narrow minded.
When I was a teen, I was focused on making money to afford a vehicle. So it was lawn jobs, then grocery jobs, and I was out of the house at 18 and on my own. Even if gaming had been mainstream back then, there was no time or money for it, and it certainly wouldn't have been a priority if there were. Kids these days are frickin spoiled by their parents.