I develop video games for a living and so I also like to keep up with the latest. I bought the 3090 because it was so much better than anything out there, only for the 4090 to release barely a year later with 60% more performance, so I bought that too. But that new 12VHPWR power cable on the 40 series was a massive mistake. My 4090 connector melted about a year after purchase, so I had to RMA it and wait for a new one. If the 5090 still has it, hard pass. You need something a lot more robust than that skinny little plug, and it also needs to be in a different spot so it doesn't poke straight into the outer edge of your case allowing the cable bend to eventually incinerate your connector. I bought the 180 degree cablemod adapter that seemed to be great, until it got recalled. Had to buy a separate vertical riser mount to get it safe again. It's been a journey.
I also question what practical purpose a 5090 might have. The 4090 lets me game in 4K @ 120Hz with most things maxed out, depending on the game of course. And traditional DLSS is amazing, just not the frame gen which still commonly breaks UI. I literally took screenshots of Control with and without DLSS and I couldn't tell the difference zooming in and taking my time to try to spot the differences. At 120Hz, no longer matters at all at that scale.
Sure 8K gaming may be coming, but not at desktop screen view distances. An 8K screen would be 4x more demanding than a 4K screen. So looking likely I'll skip the next one. Of course, Path Tracing and RT will be worthy, but I wonder if it'll be able to handle high framerates at 4K.