This is from a different psu but is a shot of a male molex. Not trying to insult your intelligence, just not sure if you realize neither male or female has exposed pins. One has a large plastic sheath and male pins inside, the other should have metal receptacles for the pins with a smaller plastic sheath that slips into the other end. Usually the male has curved grips on it like the ones in this photo for easier removal.
http://images.bit-tech.net/content_images/2008/04/thermaltake_toughpower_1500w_w0171_psu/molex-8.jpg
Sorry for the large photo size, that's why it's not an inline photo here and just a link.
If you truly don't have molex plugs that match the led strip there are molex converters with m/m or f/f to bridge between two identical power connectors. Did you also check the molex from the led strip to make sure it's not dual sided like a pass through type plug? Fans often use something similar so they can be plugged in series without terminating or completely using up a molex cable.