As for the 3rd option im using 2 monitors and none of them get signal so im guessing it cant be that issue?
Just seems like a really weird problem as once i restart pc everything is 100% fine and running as it should.
it was years ago so I think, its highly doubtfull about that.
imporant part is if you see the LOGO or BIOS stuff on that first boot and how big was the update ? from INTEL to AMD or something smaller ?
if its affecting bios, its much worse.
if not:
did you try clean nvidia driver install from the website?
maybe windows did break it? I had a LOT of those with sound drivers not picking up headphones or 5.1 system or camera or a lot of other things. (if you noticed windows update in last few days, upgrade might be coincidental and issue came from windows update (this is where I would bet)
I would try to purge the drivers and reinstall them, as whatever I mentioned would not affect both screens, unless they have identical models, with identical "problematic" cable, and you will be VERY unlucky guy.