First, thamks for marking my post above as the Solution.
Which fan do I sacrifice then?
That's easy. ALL of the case ventilation fans should be connected to CHA_FAN headers, and all of those headers configured in the same way (except for one item). Your problem, I assume, is that you have 4 such fans but fewer CHA_FAN headers. Well, look at that Y-Splitter accessory supplied with your CPU cooler. It is used to connect two fans to one header. You can buy another of those at any computer parts shop. Most of them will have more than two outputs. All will have 4-pin designs, but you can use them for either fan type. Use one of these to connect two or three of your case fan to one mobo CHA_FAN header.
Now, there are things you need to know and pay attention to in doing this. The first is that almost all mobo fan headers can supply power to fans at 12 VDC and up to 1.0 A total current to all the fans on that one header. So you look at the label on each fan (or at its website) to find the max current spec for it. Add up the max current for all the fans you plan to connect to ONE header using a Splitter. As long as that total is less than 1.0 A, you are OK.
There are two different types of devices on the market for connecting several fans to one header: Splitters and Hubs. Too many sellers use those terms as if they mean the same thing and they are NOT. A SPLITTER is simple. It has one input "arm" with a female connector that plugs into a mobo fan header. It has two or more output "arms" with male (with pins) connectors for plugging in your fans. That's it. All it does is connect all its fans in parallel to the header so all fan power comes from that header, and all fans get exactly the same power supply. A HUB is similar, but it has one EXTRA "arm" that connects to a power output (4-pin Molex or SATA) from the PSU. It gets all power for the fans from the PSU and draws none from the mobo header, so the Amp limit does NOT apply. However, because of design details this type of device can be used only with the newer 4-pin PWM fan type, and only with a mobo header that is sending out signals in that PWM Mode. It cannot control the speed of any 3-pin fan.
Visually a SPLITTER may appear to be a collection of cable arms, or a small circuit board with edge connectors, or a box with connectors recessed in holes. A HUB also may look just like that, so you cannot tell from that appearance. The distinguishing difference is the presence of that THIRD connection to the PSU for a HUB.
For your situation, OP, you appear to have at least one 3-pin fan and some 4-pin fans for case venting. Each of those types requires that the header that feeds it be configured properly for either Voltage Control Mode (aka DC Mode) for 3-pin fans, or PWM Mode for 4-pin fans. So you cannot mix the two fan types on one header using a Splitter. But you CAN create two different groups according to fan type. For example, use one Splitter to connect three 4-pin fans to one CHA_FAN header (provided their total max Amps is under 1.0), and set that header to use PWM Mode. Then connect any 3-pin fans using another Splitter (if more than one fan) to a different CHA_FAN header and set that to DC Mode.
Any fan header can deal with the speed signal sent back to it from only one fan. So any Splitter or Hub will send back the speed from only one of its output ports, and ignore the speeds of all its other fans. The "other" fans' speeds will never be "seen" anywhere. For a Splitter or Hub that looks like a collection of cables, look closely at the output male connectors. Only one of them will have all 4 pins, while all others are missing Pin #3 so it cannot make a connection for the speed line. So you must ensure that one fan is plugged into that one output with all 4 pins. For a units that look like a circuit board or a closed box there will be some marker on ONE output of the only port that will send back its fan's speed, so connect a fan to that one.