riser :
The question to ask if why is the cost of living going up and why are wages flat? If you can accurately answer those questions, it will point you to the root cause.
To expand, wages are flat because of economic uncertainity. Who controls that?
Cost of living is going up because other costs are going up due to regulations in place. Who controls that?
Your rebuttal is also flawed, in that the wages have stagnated over a much larger time period than immediately after the financial collapse; the systemic root of the economic insecurity currently occupying the markets, created and manifested in the same place.
The regulation argument for the cost of goods going up is a red herring, mostly because the businesses exporting jobs and manufacturing are seeking higher profits, nothing more. The more we employ free trade agreements and foreign policies that directly limit American businesses amongst global competition, the more we see the exportation of all aspects of manufacturing and product creation. IMO, once we remove trade preference (free trade agreements) and impose the same regulations for importation of goods (to create an even manufacturing baseline) there won't be such a rush to seek cheap labor elsewhere. The cost of labor is truly the most dominant factor in moving operations elsewhere; why pay American's dollars/hour when you can pay foreigners pennies/hour?
Imposing the same standards of production on goods created in other countries (same standards for safety, quality, consistency, etc.) through business expectations and proper corporate management, as well as government regulation, would in-turn bring more jobs back to this country.
For all those the continue to blame the government for all our woes, you might want to consider major manufactures like I've listed below:
HP - Laid off 60,000 American workers and outsourced the jobs to India.
GE - Showed revenue of upwards of US$ 15 Billion, 10 Billion of which is directly attributed to off shore investments.
GM/Big 3 - Closed down multiple plants throughout the country to send jobs to Mexico.
These corporations have no incentive of staying in the US when they can save hand-over-fist on Labor by exporting the jobs. Saying that the SAFETY and HEALTH regulations are what is bringing down these markets is disingenious and untrue. The EPA has much less of an effect at creating/destroying jobs compared to a companies options to pollute somewhere else, for less cost. The oil and gas companies were specifically mentioned earlier as being "opportunities" for job growth if it weren't for that pesky EPA. Let's just take Texas as an example and look at the fact that the state is below the national unemployment average, yet the state government has done little to nothing. It's directly related to the energy markets in Texas. Lowering health, safety and quality standards doesn't increase job growth, it increases profit on the bottom line. Nigeria and many other countries in Northern Africa are shining examples (there are no health, safety, quality standards over there, and thus the populations are dying of diesases and problems related to exposure).
But the trend is coming back, albeit extremely slowly:
This trend of reshoring or insourcing is likely to grow in the coming years, as the cost gap between building overseas and building at home narrows. It's an encouraging sign in a job market where hiring has stalled in recent months.
http://money.cnn.com/2011/06/17/news/economy/made_in_usa/index.htm
But this is directly related to wages increasing in other countries, specifically China, India and many places in South America. As their labor costs increase, so does the margin for profit gain
SHRINK by creating products in these far off places.
I have the luxury of working in IT, within the Transportation/Logistics industry and see both sides of issue fairly clearly. The main hangup I have in all of this is the subsidization of businesses, supposedly American businesses, that only have a P.O. Box or less within the US and have all manufacturing outside of our borders. I also have huge problems with the energy subsidizies as all it is doing is propping up the shareholders and executives while passing on the bill to all the tax payers. Per a personal motto, "If you take the money out of politics, you take away the power out of the hands of the few."