
That post seemed a bit hostile to me, but maybe it's just because I'm reading this late at night... anyhow, I'm not meaning to get in an argument here jtt283, but scroll to the top of the thread. The first reply by was by alvine and his suggested build, which has an FX 4100 and then his second comment on the thread was to get an h100 overclock it.
You bring up a good point about the motherboard though, it's definitely the weakest part of the build. I just didn't see his needs including sata III, USB 3.0, or a need to SLI or crossfire. For his case, I felt like getting him a better graphics card to ride him through would be abetter idea then getting him features he may end up never using. With the added power in his graphics card, I couldn't see him needing to upgrade for a long while. With that being said, I wouldn't be comfortable recommending less than a 6870 for him. If he ever decides to play anther game besides Diablo, he may be really grateful for that added power.
Obviously though, you've been on this forum a lot longer than I have, so I'll take your advice over what I think since I'm still a bit new

. If you want, you can guide him through the rest of the build. If the motherboard and GPU were your only concerns this build should pretty much be done after you switch the two out.
Lastly, Tyler, dude, don't worry. I promise you it's not going to be as hard as you're thinking it will be. These pieces are by nature sensitive, but not to the magnitude you seem to be thinking. They are made of metal and semicondicters, they're relatively tough. When it come to installing a processor, you just pick it up by the edges and gently place it in the socket and secure it with the bracket. It's cake. Take just an hour or two to read the manuals and look up how to guides on the internet. By the time you're done with all this you will feel very accomplished and be very glad you went with a homebuild.