It was my bad- thanks for everyone's input. You know what I didn't do when I installed the new DDR3? I didn't clock it back to near standard settings before I installed the new DDR3. I had just realized that after my rant and you know I read over and over again that it will work- because it does work.
I was clocked at 2000Mhz with 2000Mhz DDR3. The sticks were wore out- at least that's what I suspected and I was right. I bought some 2666Mhz DDR3 but this old rig wont fry that hot. I've done some testing and it will do 2200Mhz, I tried 2333Mhz but it wont have it- guess I should have saved $50 and gone with the 2400Mhz DDR3 with tighter timing. It is possible 2X8GB would have been a better choice as well. The thing is I had been testing my old DDR3 and I couldn't boot with only 2 sticks installed no matter which way I put them. 1 and 3 were the slots I remember the manual saying to use if only using 2 sticks- at least that's what I remember but I tried it everyway with every different stick.
[My DDR3 was going bad so I had to change it out- it was effecting the system and this old dog is seeing a new day. Apparently the ram can effect the CPU overclocking and that was one of the symptoms, I had clocked my system down to 3.6 for it to be stable- I thought it was the processor.]
EVGA P55 200 Classified
i7 875K @4.03Ghz (I haven't tried to go higher)
16GB G.Skills 2666Mhz RipsawsZ @2200Mhz
EVGA GTX 970 4GB FTW
EVGA GTX 680 4GB FTW (non-SLI, PhysX and Open CL)
EVGA 1000G 1000Watt power supply
OS: Windows 7 on 2 240GB Mushkin Chronos in RAID 0 via SATA3 2X PCI-e RAID controller (732MBps)
Data drive: 500GB Samsung 840 EVO via SATA3 2X PCI-e non-RAID controller (520MBps)
4 SATA2 250GB Western Digital Blue Caviar drives in RAID 10 (original build, bootable OS)
1 SATA2 500GB Western Digital Blue Caviar drive for data storage (original build)
LITEON Blu-Ray Burner, DVD, CD Combo (I use it several times a year)
Sound Blaster X Fi Extreme Audio S/PDIF connected to my mixer
1 "Big Ass" air cooler for the CPU- was thinking of upgrading to liquid, Corsair most likely.
Anyway not too bad for a 5 year old computer.