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To be more specific the RAM is G.skill 2x8 GB CL 14-14-14-34 (product number: F4-3200C14D-16GVK )
Apparently I did a mistake buying, as both QVLs from Asus and G.skill mutually exclude these two products from one another. Now, I don't have the RAM and mainboard in my hands yet to actually check it out for myself, it is still shipping in, but all this has brought up more questions than answers.
So apparently it's not about the 3200Mhz but about the CL timings that make it incompatible with the Asus Z170-P. Okay, I can more or less live with that and I'm not going to shed 100+ more bucks for a different mainboard, when I can actually save 30 to 40 bucks in buying compatible ram. So currently windowshopping for alternatives, so I can hopefully order a new kit on Monday. But all that windoshopping makes me doubt a great many things 🙁
Going from the QVL from the Asus board, I'm running into quite a lot of comprehension issues. A link to it so you can see exactly what I mean is here.
In addition, the G.skill version of compatibility for that mainboard goes there. I'm not dead set on g.skill RAM, it's just something to consider as counter-reference.
The idea was to grab a 2x8 Kit now and upgrade with an additional 2x8 kit later, however the compatibility often makes me wonder if that is possible. I don't get any confirmation if I use a 2x8 kit twice if that is actually going to work.
Here is what has me covered in question marks:
First, the g.skill website doesn't have a single 3200+ Mhz stick up there for compatibility, whereas the Asus List has... more than ten. This is only one example of incoherence. What does that tell me now?
In general, I came to think that the faster the frequency and the lower the CL speed, the size of Sticks has to decrease, which is why no really highspeed 2x8GB kits are listed. Still, my biggest confusion goes about bigger kits like 32Gig listed where their smaller counterparts that are otherwise identical are not listed as compatible. That goes against that premise.
Another one is; The Patriot 4x8 GB kit at 16-16-16-36 with 1.35 Volts at 3000Mhz. Why isn't the dot on the far right for 4dimm sockets selected, only for single and dual? I mean the kit is by nature a 4-socket configuration, so what is that all about? Originally I thought that a 2x kit with a dot in the "4 socket" list will mean that the kit can be used twice. But apparently this line of thinking can't hold up if the 4x8 Kit has NO dot in the 4 socket selector? Or does that only refer to single, dual and quad-channel ability for some reason?
Sticking with that example, why is that Patriot 4x8 Kit listed as compatible, but not a "worse" product like G.skill F4-2800C16D 2x8 GB at 1.35 Volt, not to mention the 1.2V version, which should be nicer to handle by all means? Why aren't those listed? How would they not fit the bill and why would they cause compatibility issues or outright refuse the machine to post?
So after a lengthy preface, before I get to the dreaded "TLDR" part, here is another thing to know why this topic actually came to place:
Originally I had carefully planned a system based on a 4790k, however that had to be scrapped overnight and I had to select CPU, Mainboard and RAM on a moment's notice, which is why I ordered RAM that I did not check for verified list. I just narrowed the search to the fastest the board could take comfortably, and went for the lowest timings, not double-checking with the QLV. Which apparently is going to lead me with a non-working computer once the shipping arrived (which should be today, Friday).
So to the TLDR part:
1) Does anyone have experience with the combination of Asus Z170-P and G.skill 2x8 CL14 3200Mhz ? Will they work or not? I mean, will they work for those specs, because I'm sure they can work in some default mode for JEDEC standards to at least boot up... right?
2) How should I interprete the dots in the "dimm socket support" columns?
3) If one 2x8 Kit is verified as "okay", does that also mean I can always slap a second kit into it and expect it to work, despite the weird "dimm socket support" dots missing on the 4 socket column?
4) Can I just go off "baselines" like the best specs for something in a certain category and go like "okay anything similar to that should work?" So, if I see a 2x8 GB CL15 kit work under one speed category with one specific voltage from one brand, can I expect the same stats but a different brand work just as well?
I wanted to ask Asus those questions, but on their contact form they require me to put in the serial number of the motherboard which I don't even own yet, so there goes that. And since they are companies that work business days, I rather thought to give Tom's Hardware a shot with the community being available through the weekend as well
Help would be greatly appreciated, it's been a while since I had to deal with fine details like that, and I'm horribly out of practice 🙁
Thank you all!

To be more specific the RAM is G.skill 2x8 GB CL 14-14-14-34 (product number: F4-3200C14D-16GVK )
Apparently I did a mistake buying, as both QVLs from Asus and G.skill mutually exclude these two products from one another. Now, I don't have the RAM and mainboard in my hands yet to actually check it out for myself, it is still shipping in, but all this has brought up more questions than answers.
So apparently it's not about the 3200Mhz but about the CL timings that make it incompatible with the Asus Z170-P. Okay, I can more or less live with that and I'm not going to shed 100+ more bucks for a different mainboard, when I can actually save 30 to 40 bucks in buying compatible ram. So currently windowshopping for alternatives, so I can hopefully order a new kit on Monday. But all that windoshopping makes me doubt a great many things 🙁
Going from the QVL from the Asus board, I'm running into quite a lot of comprehension issues. A link to it so you can see exactly what I mean is here.
In addition, the G.skill version of compatibility for that mainboard goes there. I'm not dead set on g.skill RAM, it's just something to consider as counter-reference.
The idea was to grab a 2x8 Kit now and upgrade with an additional 2x8 kit later, however the compatibility often makes me wonder if that is possible. I don't get any confirmation if I use a 2x8 kit twice if that is actually going to work.
Here is what has me covered in question marks:
First, the g.skill website doesn't have a single 3200+ Mhz stick up there for compatibility, whereas the Asus List has... more than ten. This is only one example of incoherence. What does that tell me now?
In general, I came to think that the faster the frequency and the lower the CL speed, the size of Sticks has to decrease, which is why no really highspeed 2x8GB kits are listed. Still, my biggest confusion goes about bigger kits like 32Gig listed where their smaller counterparts that are otherwise identical are not listed as compatible. That goes against that premise.
Another one is; The Patriot 4x8 GB kit at 16-16-16-36 with 1.35 Volts at 3000Mhz. Why isn't the dot on the far right for 4dimm sockets selected, only for single and dual? I mean the kit is by nature a 4-socket configuration, so what is that all about? Originally I thought that a 2x kit with a dot in the "4 socket" list will mean that the kit can be used twice. But apparently this line of thinking can't hold up if the 4x8 Kit has NO dot in the 4 socket selector? Or does that only refer to single, dual and quad-channel ability for some reason?
Sticking with that example, why is that Patriot 4x8 Kit listed as compatible, but not a "worse" product like G.skill F4-2800C16D 2x8 GB at 1.35 Volt, not to mention the 1.2V version, which should be nicer to handle by all means? Why aren't those listed? How would they not fit the bill and why would they cause compatibility issues or outright refuse the machine to post?
So after a lengthy preface, before I get to the dreaded "TLDR" part, here is another thing to know why this topic actually came to place:
Originally I had carefully planned a system based on a 4790k, however that had to be scrapped overnight and I had to select CPU, Mainboard and RAM on a moment's notice, which is why I ordered RAM that I did not check for verified list. I just narrowed the search to the fastest the board could take comfortably, and went for the lowest timings, not double-checking with the QLV. Which apparently is going to lead me with a non-working computer once the shipping arrived (which should be today, Friday).
So to the TLDR part:
1) Does anyone have experience with the combination of Asus Z170-P and G.skill 2x8 CL14 3200Mhz ? Will they work or not? I mean, will they work for those specs, because I'm sure they can work in some default mode for JEDEC standards to at least boot up... right?
2) How should I interprete the dots in the "dimm socket support" columns?
3) If one 2x8 Kit is verified as "okay", does that also mean I can always slap a second kit into it and expect it to work, despite the weird "dimm socket support" dots missing on the 4 socket column?
4) Can I just go off "baselines" like the best specs for something in a certain category and go like "okay anything similar to that should work?" So, if I see a 2x8 GB CL15 kit work under one speed category with one specific voltage from one brand, can I expect the same stats but a different brand work just as well?
I wanted to ask Asus those questions, but on their contact form they require me to put in the serial number of the motherboard which I don't even own yet, so there goes that. And since they are companies that work business days, I rather thought to give Tom's Hardware a shot with the community being available through the weekend as well

Help would be greatly appreciated, it's been a while since I had to deal with fine details like that, and I'm horribly out of practice 🙁
Thank you all!