I would disregard the latest drivers from the Realtek website. Their direct driver offerings, when they can be found, don't always have the desired result. I'd stick with the driver offered by your motherboard manufacturer as those will be the most likely to be tailored specifically to the implementation on your board. Just reinstall the driver on the motherboard product page, even if it is not relevant to the specificity of your issue, so that you will at least know you are running the correct driver per the board manufacturer.
Also, as bill001g has indicated, leave it on Auto navigation and try a different cable or check router settings. It's practically unlikely for that setting to actually have any fault in the problem you are experiencing other and the result of changing the setting is simply a band aid effect.