Update, I uninstalled Trident lighting control and 2 took sticks out and put them back in, rebooted, and now all the lights are working
at least it's not a malfunction with the RAM itself. a lot of conflicts can arise when using multiple lighting applications. hopefully someday in the near future there will be a more compatible option for using multiple manufacturer's LEDs simultaneously.
theyre just not controlled
because the G.Skill control software isn't installed anymore?
if so, try installing it again but don't access the RAM's lights through Razer's software.
hopefully you could avoid the conflict from arising again.
maybe even research issues others have had using the two applications together.
there may be a solution others have found to make them work together.