I think we're pointing the crosshairs at the wrong people. As far as the motherboard manufacturers are concerned, as long as they deliver the voltages required by the memory module and the signal integrity is fine from the DIMM slot to the CPU socket, they've done their job. Of note, JEDEC officially goes up to DDR5-8000 (of which at the time of this post, there were only five listings on PCPP for such memory).
Whether or not the CPU itself can manage that? I don't think that's for motherboard manufacturer to really care about. After all, if AM5 is supposed to be supported for as many generations as AM4 (if not more), then Zen 5 or Zen 6 CPUs may be able to handle it at that point.
Considering AMD needed to issue microcode updates to tame power delivery, this tells me they were really lax with their validation of what the CPU can handle. That or they didn't issue clear enough limitations to board makers.