Sli bridges are super cheap to buy unless it is a special HB bridge, they are more expensive.
About pairing different 970s - the faster one will run the same speed as the slower one, or you can overclock the slower one to match the faster one.
Regarding games, almost all games are supporting 2x sli these days, but of course there are still many unsupported.
Therefore, if your friend gave you the card for free as a present, you might consider selling them both and buy a 1070/80 as I did.