The use of thermal grease/paste isn't essential, but it'll help in lowering the temp of your CPU. A thermal pad is a part of some heatsinks, if that's there you don't need thermal grease/paste. They are pretty much the same thing but the pad is already on the heatsink, the grease/paste needs to be bought seperately and applied. Hope that answered your question.
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