Only very select laptops have upgradeable graphics cards (via MXM), it is unlikely that you have one. The reason that upgradeable graphics hasn't really caught on is the thermal solution is engineered to handle a specific amount of heat. Most laptops have a single heatsink assembly with heatpipes running to the CPU and another set of heatpipes running to the GPU. Unless it was intentionally designed with upgrades in mind, the thermal solution will only handle the components of the stock laptop. Since laptops are typically built to cost, building a more expensive cooling solution for a feature that may or may not get used isn't feasible in most cases.
What we may see catch on though is external graphics boxes that connect to the...