Thank you for the great replies.
I am still somewhat confused though about the CPU but that has to do with the compatibility list
But let me first try to answer a few of you're questions, there's really two reasons for me thinking about upgrading a bit.
The first is of course games, my current specs can really do anything else be it video editing, adobe stuff or just general multitasking for my needs anyway.
I am not a big gamer so it don't have to be perfect but I do know there will come a couple of games in the next year or so that I suspect at least my current GPU wont be to crazy about.
Mass Effect 2, new COD something (skipped the last one) etc.
The second reason is that I felt I might be able to get some good bang for the buck right now plus put of a new build lets say ~+2 years off and be a happy camper in the mean time.
As for money as long as it would be good bang!
I was thinking ~380 US$ however in Denmark hardware prices are a bit more pricey then newegg, if I am naughty and buy in Sweden you can compare prices to the US better.
ATM I do 1280x1024 but I am seriously looking in to buying a new screen so I don't think that have to effect the decision too much.
As for RAM I pt got CORSAIR 6400, v5.1, 5-5-5-12, 800 MHz.
I really don't know to much about bottlenecks so I am unsure if it is something I should be worried about?
On PSU I am good with a CORSAIR I upgraded last year and put the old PSU in a semi retired computer.
I had one more look at the compatibility list.
http://support.asus.com/cpusupport/cpusupport.aspx?SLanguage=en-us&model=M2N-SLI%20Deluxe
It seems like the Phenom X4 9850 is the last of the X4 series to be supported.
http://www.newegg.com/Product/Product.aspx?Item=N82E16819103471
The PII940 looks really nice but I am unclear to whether it's compatible or not?
Then I had I look at the Phenom II x720 which is not listed either but according to people here -
http://www.tomshardware.co.uk/forum/page-259088_10_0.html
it works even though it's not on ASUS compatibility chart, yet?
As in the compatibility chart is not up to date with the BIOS revision? Or like future BIOS updates will have better X4 and X3, AM3 support?
The Phenom II x720 seems to be a really good buy at least here what would you say?
The XFX GTS 250 looks like a sweet deal too I think I would go with that. Half the price of my 8800 GTS, bad buy timing BTW.
Cheers for the heatsink as well
To sum it all up this is the route I would like to go and fits the budget very well.
Phenom II x720 (if you think it would be a good buy and if it actually fits!)
XFX GTS 250
heatsink
If the Phenom X4 9850 is the best supported in the line then maybe I should put it off for a while and then when I really need it go with the whole package motherboard, RAM etc.
I just found the receipt date for this build 1/5/07 (I know, old in computer years...) but still I would really like to get ~2 more years out of some of the pieces, then I think I would be ready to do a fresh
I am not in a rush at all so please keep the suggestions and advice coming.
Long post there, maybe I should start to twitter? Hope the grammar ain't too bad