this will help you, you need to know your router make and then log into it.
http://portforward.com/english/applications/port_forwarding/Utorrent/
to set your ip manually right click on your network connection, open network and sharing center click on lan/wifi and hit properties. find ipv4 and hit properties.
next open cmd and type ipconfig/all. find your ipv4 address and gateway i would say its 192.168.1.x with a 192.168.1.1 gateway
enter that info into the ipv4 properties as well as your dns youc an use 4.2.2.1 and 8.8.8.8 as well.